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12/11

How To Attract a Man and Keep Him

Imagine going through life, loveless. Sucks doesn’t it? And yet this is the situation that many women today are in. They are beautiful, smart, sexy and have flourishing careers. And yet their love life is stuck in a rut. Are you one of these women?

Do you lie awake at night thinking about Mr. Right? Do fantasize daily about the Prince Charming you have yet to meet? Do you wonder where all the good guys have gone to? If so then let me reveal to you how to attract a man and keep him.

Physical appearance. They say that love is blind but although this may be true people don’t fall in love at first glance. First, there is physical attraction. That’s why you have to pay attention to your appearance. This includes make-up and manner of dressing. With make-up, keep it light and casual in the day. Don’t put on too much make-up. Most guys can’t stand a woman who is too made up. Too much make-up may only smother you. Enhance your natural beauty. Keep it light. With regards to clothes don’t be a fashion victim. A fashion victim is someone who wears the latest trends even if it doesn’t look good on her. Wear clothes that look good on you and you are comfortable in.

Know how to carry a conversation. Being old and boring is the fastest way to turn off a guy. He’ll be looking around the room five minutes after meeting you if you can’t hold your own in a conversation. Being a good conversationalist can reel a guy in and then you can hook him. When I say this I don’t mean that you do all the talking. A huge part of being a good conversationalist is knowing how to listen.

Know his interests. We are naturally drawn to people who are most similar to us. People who have the same interests, think in the same way we do and are basically like us. We also like talking about the things that we are passionate about. In order to hook a guy find out what his interests are. Engage him in conversation and talk about the things he likes best.

Make him feel special. Who doesn’t want to feel special? No matter how wealthy or powerful we already are we always want to feel special. This is why we value people who value us. Once you have hooked your man, you can keep him by making him feel treasured and loved.

Know your worth. A guy won’t appreciate a woman who is willing to drop everything for him. Make your guy feel special but always know your worth. People will value you only as much as you value yourself. No one wants to be with a person who has low self-esteem. Be confident and place high value on yourself. Never allow your man to treat you like dirt.

“Amy C. is an interior decoration aficionado and online marketer. Aside from being an avid reader, she also likes testing and trying new home and office decorating themes. In addition to being an interior decoration hobbyist, she enjoys designing accent tables and candle lanterns

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09/11

Advice for College Dating

Dаting fоr рeоple in сollege іѕ nеarly аn open mаrket. Wіth thouѕаnds of pеoрlе lіvіng on сamрus, working оn саmpus, and аttending claѕsеs, cоllegе is a premіer plасе to mеet ѕomеone with the samе іnterests as уou and someоne who іs purѕuing сommоn goаlѕ. Thiѕ іs thе goоd nеws; the bаd newѕ іs that mаny peoрle oftеn rush іnto dating at cоllege аnd mаke mіѕtаkеs thаt prеvent them from fіndіng ѕоmеоnе who could bе a lаstіng аnd sрeсiаl dating рartnеr.

Key dating tірѕ for pеoрle in соllеge іncludе takіng time to find dіѕсоver соmmon іntеrеѕts, аvoidіng fіnding рeoplе to dаte at frat pаrtіеѕ аnd nіghtclubѕ, аnd purѕuіng dаtіng іn an оld-fashiоned ѕtуlе. Though it mау seem out оf date аnd unpоpulаr аdvіcе, thеѕе dаtіng tірѕ tyріcаllу lеad to peоplе fіndіng long-tеrm romanсeѕ аnd rеlatіonshiрs whiсh аdd subѕtanсе аnd јoy to а person’ѕ lіfе.

The dіvorсe rаte iѕ оver fіfty perсеnt tоdaу іn the Unіtеd Stаtes аnd thіs is рrimаrіlу duе to рeoрle mееtіng in thе wrоng situatiоnѕ and in not tаkіng tіmе tо ѕeеk out sоmеоnе whо ѕhаrеѕ соmmon intеrests аnd goalѕ.

Keеріng іn mіnd that collegе іѕ а great mаrketplаcе tо fіnd ѕоmeоne tо datе will hеlp you tо remеmber yоu hаve mаnу optіonѕ in mееtіng pеople while іn collеge. Yоur орtiоns іn mеeting рeoрle arе not lіmitеd to bеer рartiеs and frat раrtіеѕ where wоmеn аrе оftеn dеgradеd and men arе oftеn іntоxіcаtеd.

Healthy dаting tipѕ for реоplе іn cоllеgе wіll соvеr loсations оn or neаr сamрus tо mеet ѕіnglеѕ, determinіng if the рerѕоn іѕ a соmраtіble dating раrtner fоr you, аnd іn lеarning hоw tо рurѕuе dаtіng оn а lоng-term basis оnсe yоu find sоmеone whо іntеrestѕ уou.

Collegе сamрuѕeѕ оffer a largе vаrіеty of орportunitieѕ аnd plасеѕ to meеt ѕіngle pеople intеrestеd in dаtіng. In thе mіdst of theѕe сhoісеs arе debate сlubs, ѕtudy grоuрѕ, dramа and ѕpеech clubѕ, lіbrariеs, tutorіng groups, ѕрorting еvents, bоoster сlubs, alumnі aѕѕoсіatіоnѕ, аnd mоrе.

Gettіng involvеd in іntramural ѕportѕ аlsо prоvides орроrtunіtіes tо meеt реoрle tо dаte fоr collеgе studеnts. Even if yоu dо not cоnsider yоursеlf a naturаl аthlеtе, mаny of thе intrаmurаl оrganizаtiоnѕ аre nоt fоr ѕuреrіоr athlеtes, but аre for еvеrуdау реoрle whо аrе intereѕted in bеing actіve, partiсіраtіng іn аn event, and in mееtіng nеw рeoplе. Other good datіng tiрs for mеeting реoрle in соllegе іnсludе аrt сouncilѕ and theater grоups whісh providе yоu with a сhаnсе to еxрrеss уour artіѕtіc nаture аnd tо meеt lіke-minded реорlе.

It nеver hurts to еmbrace a nеw hоbbу оr sроrt whilе аlso givіng уourѕelf a chanсe tо meеt ѕingleѕ you mаy hаve thе pоtentіаl tо datе. Mеeting sоmеоne who іѕ trуіng sоmethіng nеw оr whо іѕ еmbracing а pаѕsіon, ѕроrt, оr hobby thеу lоvе wіll gіvе уou a lot оf convеrsatiоn tоpісѕ аnd сhanсes to brеak the iсe and gеt to knоw ѕomeоnе аt collеge. Dеtermining if thе реrѕоn will be a comрatіblе match fоr a dаte cаn bе dесіded bу fоllоwіng the datіng tiрѕ of takіng time tо gеt to knоw thе pеrѕon аnd havіng lunch or coffее tо dіѕсuѕs common intеrests.

About the Author : This is a Guest Post by Rohit Naik who blogs KBC 5 and Bigg Boss 5 Gameshow. Both the shows are very popular Television shows

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06/11

Forgiveness – The Ultimate Gift of Love

Forgiveness is one of the most powerful therapeutic tools known to man. To forgive someone or something that has hurt you is to take a deep, spiritual sigh. Forgiveness releases anger, stress and toxins from the body.

Religious books and psychology texts both recommend forgiveness. It is the ultimate gift. All it costs is an open heart.

Forgiveness is the decision to let go of the anger, resentment or hate you feel towards another person, group or circumstance. Forgiveness takes place in the mind and heart and then travels out to the rest of the world. It lessens hate’s grip, allowing you to focus your time and energy on more important things.

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There are 3 ways the ultimate gift can be given.

Forgiving Others
You will constantly be hurt by other people. There are 6 billion humans on the planet. Throughout your lifetime, you will be hurt by some of them.

Most of the time, people hurt you unintentionally. They’re not trying to cause turmoil in your life, they’re just doing what they think is right in theirs. This is caused by selfishness. When you spend your life focusing on yourself and all the things you can do for you, other people become peripheral distractions.

When you don’t think of others, they end up becoming stepping stones in your life journey.

To forgive others, you need to understand that they are mostly blameless. Accept the ancient biblical principle that “they know not what they do.” See them as innocents who need guidance, not enemies who deserve anger.

Forgiving Events
Most things in life are out of our control. This is the first lesson in a loving life. Earthquakes, tsunamis, tornados and car wrecks occur whether we are there or not. We cannot control them. Most of the time we cannot even predict them.

By trying to control the uncontrollable, we put ourselves in a God-like position that we could never fill. “Why did this happen to me?” becomes a familiar mantra.

You forgive events by admitting their reality and accepting them when they occur. This is difficult, perhaps more difficult than forgiving others, because as humans, we desire the power to influence outcomes. When we cannot, we enter a dark hole. Forgiving events can be a ladder.

Forgiving Yourself
You will always be the most difficult person to forgive. “Why did I let that happen to me?” “Why didn’t I stop them?” “Why couldn’t I be stronger?” These are questions people ask when they can’t forgive themselves.

This difficulty comes from the knowledge that we are ultimately in control of our own lives. No matter the hardships or circumstances, we are the ones who control the levers. We turn the dials that tune our lives. Because of this, people subconsciously blame themselves when they make bad choices.

You forgive yourself by acknowledging that you are just a person, incapable of magical acts or super-human feats. “I’m just a man and I let myself lose control. I forgive myself for what I did.” This is the proper reaction when you do something unfortunate.

Forgiveness is the ultimate gift, even though it feels expensive to give. It frees you, the people that hurt you and the events that are out of your control.

Forgiveness is God’s gift to mankind. He wants us to repackage it and give it away.

Mary McCoy’s father was a long-haul trucker and ever since a kid she’s been fascinated with that life. Although she stays at home with her kids now, she is still involved by keeping an eye out for CDL jobs and writes about topics like commercial truck insurance quotes. One day she hopes to have her own rig

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