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Imagine going through life, loveless. Sucks doesn’t it? And yet this is the situation that many women today are in. They are beautiful, smart, sexy and have flourishing careers. And yet their love life is stuck in a rut. Are you one of these women?

Do you lie awake at night thinking about Mr. Right? Do fantasize daily about the Prince Charming you have yet to meet? Do you wonder where all the good guys have gone to? If so then let me reveal to you how to attract a man and keep him.

Physical appearance. They say that love is blind but although this may be true people don’t fall in love at first glance. First, there is physical attraction. That’s why you have to pay attention to your appearance. This includes make-up and manner of dressing. With make-up, keep it light and casual in the day. Don’t put on too much make-up. Most guys can’t stand a woman who is too made up. Too much make-up may only smother you. Enhance your natural beauty. Keep it light. With regards to clothes don’t be a fashion victim. A fashion victim is someone who wears the latest trends even if it doesn’t look good on her. Wear clothes that look good on you and you are comfortable in.

Know how to carry a conversation. Being old and boring is the fastest way to turn off a guy. He’ll be looking around the room five minutes after meeting you if you can’t hold your own in a conversation. Being a good conversationalist can reel a guy in and then you can hook him. When I say this I don’t mean that you do all the talking. A huge part of being a good conversationalist is knowing how to listen.

Know his interests. We are naturally drawn to people who are most similar to us. People who have the same interests, think in the same way we do and are basically like us. We also like talking about the things that we are passionate about. In order to hook a guy find out what his interests are. Engage him in conversation and talk about the things he likes best.

Make him feel special. Who doesn’t want to feel special? No matter how wealthy or powerful we already are we always want to feel special. This is why we value people who value us. Once you have hooked your man, you can keep him by making him feel treasured and loved.

Know your worth. A guy won’t appreciate a woman who is willing to drop everything for him. Make your guy feel special but always know your worth. People will value you only as much as you value yourself. No one wants to be with a person who has low self-esteem. Be confident and place high value on yourself. Never allow your man to treat you like dirt.

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So many times I have heard friends lamenting that the perfect man or woman for them just doesn?t exist. When you ask the person doing the crying what they want in a partner they describe someone good looking with a great figure, great personality, usually younger than them and with lots of money.

That’s usually coming from a person of mediocre looks, a dumpy figure, a number of personality quirks and no money. They are always quick to point out that once someone gets to know them, looks won?t count. Don?t get me wrong, you can usually see some good qualities in that person, knowing them as a friend. And princesses do kiss toads from time to time but let’s get realistic.

If you are truly looking for a great partner to share your life you have to take an honest look at yourself and really consider what is important to you. Really, honestly look at yourself. I just heard a 350 pound slob of a man say he would never go out with a woman who is overweight. Now when you get to know this guy you learn he?s hard working, smart and funny. But he isn?t rich or well known. And for him to dismiss a whole bunch of women based on their weight and then say he is looking for the right soul mate is very hypocritical.

While there is a saying that opposites attract the reality is that people who are alike, who have things in common are more likely to be happy with each other. Most people end up marrying someone whose looks would be rated similarly to them, whose personality has some quirks that can be lived with and whose economic situation is similar to theirs. We hear it all our lives and many of us spout the words- ?its what?s inside that counts? but then we end up sorting potential partners into categories by what they look like instead of getting to know them.

If you truly want to find a partner to share your life try giving the person with the dumpy figure, the odd personality or not so great job a chance. Go into any dating experience with an open mind, maybe the person that doesn?t fit your ideal partner profile at the beginning will become the light of your life.

The person who sticks rigidly to looking for a prince or princess will probably never marry and they are probably deep inside afraid of finding a person who wants to marry them anyway. Do you really, truly want a life partner? Then open your heart and close your eyes!

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Long distance relationships are becoming the norm in society but one fact hasn’t changed. They are still hard! The internet and dating websites have encouraged people to take the risk and begin relationships that may have thousands of miles between two people. Long distance relationships are often difficult. They require clear communication and lots of work! If you have found yourself in this situation, the follow tips will help strengthen your relationship. Long distance relationships can last as long as you are building upon a strong foundation.

1 Building trust. If there is no trust in your long distance relationship, you should probably save yourself some heart ache and call it quits now. Being able to trust your significant other is crucial. You don’t want to spend time worrying about who he/she is with or what he is doing. Know and believe that you can trust your significant other who is miles and miles away. This will be the beginning of a successful long distance relationship.

2 Finding time for each other daily. Just as you would if you were near each other, finding time to spend together daily is important. This can be done via telephone or video chat as technology has helped long distance relationship to survive. Regardless of which method you choose, you must make the effort. Choose a time each day that work well for both of you and spend some time connecting and communicating. Old fashioned letter writing is another great way to find time for each other.

3 Celebrating milestones. Celebrate monthly anniversaries by planning visits. Choose unique locations to meet up and celebrate love. Send flowers or candy on the day of the month the two of you met. Celebrating milestones will keep the relationship new and fresh.

4 Communicating needs and wants. Communication is the most important part of a long distance relationship. Communication is more than just small talk. It is explaining to each other your needs and wants. There should be some substance behind the conversations.

5 Find ways to make the other person feel special. The little things will be very important in strengthening your long distance relationship. Think outside of the box and do little things that will make her day better. Send her a letter or email. Buy him something special and send it to the office.

6 Go the extra mile to be attractive when you do see him/ her. The times when the two of you do get to come together, go the extra mile to make him/her feel special. Work hard to be attractive. Get a new hairstyle and a new outfit. This proves that you are willing to put forth the extra effort to please him.

7 Be clear on expectations of the relationship. What is the ultimate outcome of the relationship? The relationships can be strengthened by making sure the both of you are on the same page. If you want marriage within the next few years and he does not, there could be a problem. Be clear on expectations!

8 Are the feelings mutual? If you are serious about the relationship but aren’t getting the same vibe from you partner, there could be a problem. Once again, expectations of the relationships must be made clear early on.

9 Overreacting will hinder the relationship. Be realistic! There will come times in the relationship when your partner will have to miss a phone call or you may have to go a while without seeing him. Don’t let overreactions ruin your relationship. If he doesn’t call, assume that something has come up. Don’t assume he is cheating or doesn’t care anymore. Be realistic!

10 Stay positive about the relationship. Your attitude will have a great impact on whether or not the relationship will survive the distance. If you go into it thinking that it could never work, it never will. On the other hand, if you go into it with a positive attitude that it can succeed, you better the chances greatly.

Many couples have survived long distance relationships. The reality is that it will be difficult. With the tips above, you can strengthen your relationship and beat the odds.

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