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Imagine going through life, loveless. Sucks doesn’t it? And yet this is the situation that many women today are in. They are beautiful, smart, sexy and have flourishing careers. And yet their love life is stuck in a rut. Are you one of these women?

Do you lie awake at night thinking about Mr. Right? Do fantasize daily about the Prince Charming you have yet to meet? Do you wonder where all the good guys have gone to? If so then let me reveal to you how to attract a man and keep him.

Physical appearance. They say that love is blind but although this may be true people don’t fall in love at first glance. First, there is physical attraction. That’s why you have to pay attention to your appearance. This includes make-up and manner of dressing. With make-up, keep it light and casual in the day. Don’t put on too much make-up. Most guys can’t stand a woman who is too made up. Too much make-up may only smother you. Enhance your natural beauty. Keep it light. With regards to clothes don’t be a fashion victim. A fashion victim is someone who wears the latest trends even if it doesn’t look good on her. Wear clothes that look good on you and you are comfortable in.

Know how to carry a conversation. Being old and boring is the fastest way to turn off a guy. He’ll be looking around the room five minutes after meeting you if you can’t hold your own in a conversation. Being a good conversationalist can reel a guy in and then you can hook him. When I say this I don’t mean that you do all the talking. A huge part of being a good conversationalist is knowing how to listen.

Know his interests. We are naturally drawn to people who are most similar to us. People who have the same interests, think in the same way we do and are basically like us. We also like talking about the things that we are passionate about. In order to hook a guy find out what his interests are. Engage him in conversation and talk about the things he likes best.

Make him feel special. Who doesn’t want to feel special? No matter how wealthy or powerful we already are we always want to feel special. This is why we value people who value us. Once you have hooked your man, you can keep him by making him feel treasured and loved.

Know your worth. A guy won’t appreciate a woman who is willing to drop everything for him. Make your guy feel special but always know your worth. People will value you only as much as you value yourself. No one wants to be with a person who has low self-esteem. Be confident and place high value on yourself. Never allow your man to treat you like dirt.

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Before you can find your ideal mate, you need to find your own self confidence. Potential partners find a person more attractive when they have confidence oozing out of every pore. While you may not even notice this is what particularly attracts you to someone at first, people are naturally drawn to those who present themselves in a confident manner. If this is something you struggle with yourself, there are a variety of ways to start building your self-confidence. For many, it is a bit of a “fake it until you make it situation,” but sooner or later, there will be no more faking it involved! Below are some ways to boost your own confidence and then use that confidence to attract the mate of your dreams.

1. Take care of your personal appearance
The easiest way to boost your confidence is to make sure you look good and are dressed appropriately all the time. If you are not happy with your hair, go to the salon and get a new look. If you wear makeup you can even ask the cosmetologist for his or her opinion on how you should apply your makeup and what colors are best suited for you. Looking good will make you feel good which will automatically increase your confidence.

2. Replace negative thoughts with positive ones
If you are fearful of failing, like many of us are, you can combat these negative thoughts by trying to replace them with positive affirmations. Change your perspective and smile. If you need further education, stop hesitating and get it. Where there’s a will, there’s a way.

3. Exercise regularly
Exercise increases endorphins in the body which are the “feel good” hormones everyone wants. Even if you are physically fit you should find the time to take a brisk walk for 20 to 30 minutes every morning or night to get those endorphins released and to elevate your mood. Exercise should become a habit.

When you have enough confidence in yourself and in your abilities, you are ready to find that perfect mate. Actively searching for a mate can be rather frustrating so it’s not advisable to seek someone out. Stand tall, carry yourself with confidence and you will have the attention of your perfect mate soon enough. Focus on the things that are helping to make you a better person such as volunteer work, missionary work or tutoring at the local school. These things will make you feel good on the inside and that will show on the outside. It’s even possible you will find your perfect mate while doing this work. You won’t have to ask what they like to do to help as you will already know you have something in common.

Using the laws of attraction to find the perfect mate is as simple as building your own self-confidence and then allowing that confidence to show through. Confidence is a major factor in the attraction of one person to another. Do something that makes you feel good and you will quickly find you are more confident than ever. Soon enough you will see your mate gravitating toward you.

Olivia Johnson is a health and relationship blogger who believes strongly in using positive thoughts to push away life’s negativity. She also uses subliminal cds to reinforce these messages in her own mind frequently.